I have met many people along this pathway in life and would you believe that some of the most incredible people struggle with believing in “self”. Believing in yourself sounds easy, but in truth, when people fail to believe in “self” they end up getting trapped in bad relationships, battle with feeling inadequate when it comes to making hard decisions, or simply depend on a host of others in order to make a decision on whether or not to do it or not.
- Know who you are and believe within “yourself” by speaking this subconsciously. I still make good practice by looking at myself in the mirror and saying, “you have the potentials to do what you desire. Chris, (I tell myself), I believe that you are able to succeed at this challenge. This is done for several reasons. First, words are powerful and if anyone is going to speak your future into existence, its you. Second, it helps to create a stronger belief systems within yourself.
- Next, Pull your potentials forward and give them responsibilities. There are many people that have potentials to do great things, but they never give their talents responsibility. When talents aren’t given responsibilities, then their belief system becomes weaken overtime. Before long, one can find themselves giving up on many things and this only weakens their self-esteem level.
- Finally, remind yourself of the challenge. Whatever the challenge maybe that stands in front of you.., when you remind yourself of conquering it, this helps to exercise your belief in doing so. Exercising your belief is synonymous to exercising your muscles. Just as your muscles grow when you exercise them, believing in yourself will also grow stronger when you remind yourself of the challenge your’re seeking to conquer. Remember this, if everyone in this world believed in you more than you believe in yourself, its useless.You always have the potentials to conquer goals, but without activity, you will remain stagnated. Christopher-Ty..